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Released 27 August 2009
by Sarah Kincaid
At the Joyville Children's Home, three hours outside the Capital City of
Manila, Philippines, children of all ages, from different backgrounds and
locations in the Philippines giggle and run joyfully around the grounds of this
refuge they call home. During my visit at Joyville, along with the Summer
Mission Team, the home administrator Captain Debbie Messenger took time to
explain a bit about the children, the home, and the family atmosphere at
Joyville. The stories she shared about how the children came to live at the
home were humbling, emotional and encouraging. But the story of brothers Ronny
and Alexis is the story that struck me the most.
A few years ago, Ronny, now over 18 years old, was sold into the hands of
human traffickers. His family didn't know where he was or if he was safe or in
danger. The Salvation Army rescued him from the situation and placed him in
the Joyville Home. One of the objectives of the Joyville Home is to maintain
or rebuild the relationships between the children and their families. After
many efforts the home was able to connect with Ronny's family. As soon as
Captain Debbie and Ronny docked on the beach of the remote island where Ronny
was from, Captain Debbie spotted a Ronny ‘look-a-like' and knew they had
found Ronny's family. As Ronny reconnected with his family, Captain Debbie
started to learn more about this family and their situation. Alexis, the Ronny
‘look-a-like,' was indeed Ronny's younger brother. At the age of 13,
Alexis had never been to school. Seeing the growth, development and future
opportunities that existed through Ronny's life at the children's home, their
mother agreed to allow Alexis to live at the home, too. Upon arriving at the
home Alexis did something he had never done before in his life-put on his first
pair of shoes. When Alexis put these foreign objects on his normally bare feet
he had a difficult time stepping forward, almost as if the shoes were made of
lead. It was unnatural to move with something so unfamiliar attached to his
feet. But as Alexis continues to encounter new experiences and acquire skills,
he also learns more about our Savior Jesus Christ, a promising future, and
eternity that is in store for him and for the other beautiful children of the
Joyville Children's Home!
Another location the Summer Mission Team and I were able to visit was
the Bethany Children's Home in Manila, Philippines.
The Salvation Army Bethany Children's Home works and ministers among the
sexually abused children ages 9-18 years old. The girls coming in are referred
to The Salvation Army by the Department of Social Welfare and Development,
Local Government Unit and Regional Trial Court in Metro Manila. They are all
victims of incestuous rape perpetrated either by their biological fathers or
brothers, or victims of sexual molestation and rape by stepfathers, other
relatives, grandfathers and neighbors. Most of the victims' parents have to
work hard to sustain their daily living and leave their children at home where
they are not safe. Some of the girls are from broken families.
These children have low self-esteem and unhealthy personal interactions
resulting from their traumatic experiences. They are placed in the children's
home for temporary shelter and protective custody because they have parents who
can't ensure their protection, parents who are negative in thinking and
unsupportive to the plight of the victims, or because they are at risk in the
community where they are from.
These young girls have many needs that require much attention to enable them
to grow normally and improve their self-image, regain self confidence and to
help them formulate their values. Their needs come in various forms and
degree. They include shelter, clothing, opportunities for emotional and
intellectual development, the need to belong and spiritual needs such as
aspiring for higher values and development as true Christians.
Initially upon meeting, the girls from the home were shy and uncertain about
the American guests. But as the team made efforts to interact with them they
warmed up quickly, holding hands and practicing the English they knew. Many
giggles ensued along with dozens of pictures being taken with the girls.
Bethany Children's Home aspires to responsibly adapt its service to its
client's psychosocial and physical needs.
Please lift up these girls and the staff of the home in your prayers!